the Wedding Guide by TieMart
All About Groomsmen Accessories
Your groomsmen have their suits—but their wedding day look isn’t complete just yet. The right accessories pull everything together, adding style, personality, and polish to the big day. From ties to socks, here’s a breakdown of the most popular groomsmen accessories today, plus tips on how to wear them.
Ties
The tie is the centerpiece of each groomsman's outfit and a defining part of your wedding day style. Whether you choose neckties or bow ties, this accessory sets the tone.
Neckties are a timeless choice for groomsmen, offering a polished, cohesive look that works for weddings of every style.
Style Tips:
- Neckties offer a timeless, versatile look that works for most weddings—from laid-back to formal. Available in a range of widths, from classic to skinny, there’s a style to suit every vision. Not sure which width to choose? Check out our blog: Choosing Your Necktie Width.
- Bow ties were once the go-to for weddings. They’re still a staple for black-tie attire, but also pair well with vests and suspenders for a more relaxed look. Simply like the style? Go for it—confidence is key. Our blog on Bow Tie Styles will help you decide between pre-tied and self-tie bow ties.
Bow ties add personality and charm—whether you’re going black-tie or keeping it relaxed with suspenders, they’re a standout choice for groomsmen.
Pro Tip:
Coordinate tie colors with the bridesmaids or floral arrangements for a polished, unified look in photos. Solid colors are the most popular ties, but florals, or paisleys can complement your wedding theme. Need help choosing? Check out our blog: How To Choose Wedding Ties.
Socks
Why They Matter:
Gone are the days of plain black dress socks. Today’s groomsmen are showing some personality below the cuff with colorful and patterned socks.
Style Tips:
- Match socks to your wedding colors or give each groomsman a different pattern within the same palette.
- Popular styles include argyle, stripes, polka dots, or novelty prints that reflect hobbies or inside jokes.
Pro Tip:
Snap a photo of the whole group showing off their socks—it’s a fun, easy wedding day memory.
Keep your wedding vibe going from head to toe—patterned styles like these steel blue argyle socks add a stylish twist beneath formalwear.
Suspenders
Why They Matter:
Suspenders add charm and structure to a groomsman’s outfit. While once reserved for casual, no-jacket weddings, they're now also worn under suit jackets for a clean, vest- or cummerbund-free look.
Style Tips:
- Classic colors like black, navy, and tan work with most suit colors. For a playful twist, choose suspenders in a coordinating wedding color or subtle pattern.
- Outdoor or rustic weddings often feature groomsmen in suspenders without jackets—just pin the boutonniere directly to the suspender strap.
- Suspenders can be worn with neckties or bow ties.
Pro Tip:
Choose one suspender width for the entire group to keep the look cohesive. Whether skinny or wide, consistency is key.
Suspenders bring charm and flair—pair them with a jacket for a dressier look or go without for a more casual style.
Tie Bars
Why They Matter:
Small but mighty, a tie bar keeps your groomsmen looking neat and photo-ready by clipping the tie and tail in place.
Style Tips:
Pro Tip:
Tie bars are especially useful at outdoor weddings where wind can wreak havoc on neckties.
A tie bar adds polish and function—keeping your tie in place while pulling together a sharp, coordinated groomsmen look.
Cufflinks
Why They Matter:
Cufflinks instantly elevate any dress shirt and mark the occasion as something truly special. Beyond style, they serve a functional purpose by fastening the shirt cuffs in place, replacing standard buttons.
Style Tips:
- Choose classic metal finishes, match your wedding colors, or personalize them with initials, wedding dates, or favorite hobbies.
- Be sure your groomsmen’s shirts are cufflink-compatible (look for french cuff or single cuff shirts).
Pro Tip:
Cufflinks make a great groomsmen gift. Consider presenting them to your groomsmen during the rehearsal dinner or on the morning of the wedding.
Blush pink cufflinks add polish and personality to any groomsmen look.
Boutonnieres
Why They Matter:
A boutonniere is one of the most iconic groomsmen accessories. Traditionally a single flower or small floral arrangement pinned to the left lapel, boutonnieres add a natural, elegant touch to wedding attire.
Style Tips:
- Match the boutonniere to the bridal bouquet or overall floral theme.
- The groomsmen's boutonnieres are typically coordinated but slightly simpler than the groom’s, allowing him to subtly stand out.
- Greenery-focused boutonnieres are a stylish, low-maintenance option that pairs well with any suit color.
- Whether attaching to jackets, a vest, or suspenders, make sure all boutonnieres are pinned at the same height for a cohesive look.
- For outdoor weddings or allergy concerns, consider faux or dried floral options.
Fun Fact:
The boutonniere tradition dates back centuries and was once worn to ward off evil spirits—today, it simply looks great in photos.
Dusty blue ties and greenery boutonnieres pop against navy suits—an effortless combo of color and classic floral style.
Lapel Pins
Why They Matter:
A fresh alternative to floral boutonnieres, lapel pins are budget-friendly, allergy-safe, and long-lasting.
Style Tips:
- Lapel pins often come in fabric that matches or complements ties and pocket squares, making coordination easy.
- Attach pins to a suit jacket lapel, dress shirt, or even a suspender strap depending on the outfit style.
Fun Fact:
Lapel pins attach using either a visible metal pin or a hidden butterfly clasp, depending on the style.
Lapel pins are a newer addition to wedding wear and a budget-friendly alternative to the flower boutonniere.
Pocket Squares
Why They Matter:
Pocket squares are the finishing touch for a polished wedding day look. Tucked neatly into a jacket pocket, they bring color and style to your groomsmen’s suits.
Style Tips:
- Match the pocket square to the tie for an easy, uniform look.
- Use your pocket square to highlight an accent wedding color.
- Or mix it up: Pair a patterned tie with a solid square, or blend multiple wedding colors with two pocket squares folded together.
Pro Tip:
For black-tie weddings, stick to white or black pocket squares. For all other weddings, there are no rules—just make it look intentional.
Matching burnt orange pocket squares bring the groomsmen’s look together—classic, coordinated, and full of wedding color.
Cummerbunds
Why They Matter:
Cummerbunds are a classic accessory traditionally worn with bow ties at black-tie weddings. They wrap around the waist and add formality to a tuxedo.
Style Tips:
- Pleats always face up.
- Match the cummerbund to the bow tie, or choose a subtle texture in the same color family.
Fun Fact:
Cummerbund pleats were once used to hold opera tickets. Today, they’re more likely to catch crumbs at the reception—but still look sharp!
Once a wedding staple, cummerbunds are now reserved for the most formal black-tie celebrations.
Final Thoughts
When it comes to groomsmen accessories, the details matter. Whether you're keeping it classic or adding a pop of personality, the right accessories bring the entire wedding day look together. Focus on coordination, consistency, and comfort—and don’t forget to have a little fun with it.
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